Examine (change?)
Apart from doing this process…
In this moment realistically is there anything you can do to change the part of this situation that bothers you the most?*
*This is the part that you identified at the beginning of this process
For example can you change:
another person’s behaviours/choices?
the fact that things are not as you would choose?
the fact that this has happened (or could happen)?
the fact that this has made you feel this way?